Dear GG,

I am not happily married because I feel like I made a very big mistake marrying my husband, he deceived me and after marriage I saw his true colour. He is verbally, emotionally and financially abusive. He can keep malice and he uses money and sex to punish me. He asked me not to work but to move to the village and stay with his family, when I refused, there is no insult this man did not give me. He kept malice with me for two weeks and did not give me any money. He is the reason I have decided to work because I am tired of his financial manipulations, I want my own money since I can’t trust him. I just reconnected with my ex again on facebook and he says he wants to marry me, since I am not happy in my marriage. He is promising to take care of me and has been spending on me. GG I don’t know how to handle this matter. I am afraid that if I divorce my husband for him, what if the same thing happens again in my new marriage. I am 27 years old and I don’t want to be divorced, even worse divorced twice. Also, I don’t know how to tell my family that I want a divorce because I am from a christian family and we don’t believe in divorce. But I can’t continue like this, I will run mad. GG, please tell me what to do.